Critical and judgemental spirits
Always blaming others for our issues (no personal accountability)
I believe that God is teaching us to manage our emotions. Those emotions that spill out onto others causing them hurt while accomplishing nothing. Settle down! One example of this is the notion of fighting for the "principle of the matter." Oh you know, so you have done this before, right?!
Are you fighting a war of principles right now? Are you the cheerleader in someone else's war on principles? Is it really worth it?
Let Jesus Lead